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The Impact of Social Media on Modern Relationships

Hey! How are you? As we all know, innovation through social media, has done a remarkable job in connecting people. In real sense, most people get connected, but we shouldn`t forget there are two sides of a coin. Just as the law of causes and effects proclaims "for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction". That being said, the fact that most people become more connected, means that others get disconnected. Social media has revolutionized how we connect, communicate, and build relationships. While it offers exceptional convenience and global reach, it also brings challenges that can strain modern day relationships. 

Let`s dive in!

Like every mundane invention, social media was created to ease the lives of us humans. Social media like WhatsApp and Instagram keeps people connected. A simple video call or text, could bridge the rift created by distance, thereby causing emotional closeness. Social media has also been used over the years to create opportunities. It connects the employer with the employee, thereby causing balance. As quoted earlier, there are always two sides of a coin. The negative side of social media, is more unreal than the positive effects. Exposure to so called standard portrays of relationships on different platforms, could lead to unrealistic expectations. Seeing a partner interact with others online, even if they meant no harm could trigger jealousy and cultivate trust issues. Endless scrolling could often make a partner feel ignored. It strips the quality time from each other. We`ve both analysed the effects of social media. Now some people could get insights, while others would remain feeling like shit. An ideal question "How can I or my partner navigate through social media" should give you sufficient clarity. The following ways should guide you, and give you enough clarity;

  • Set boundaries: Your partner and you should construct a standard on the use of social media. An agreement has to be made for there to be enough peace and equitymity.
  • Communicate properly: Ensure that your feelings are open and honest. Converse on what areas are making you uncomfortable, honest conversations build trust.
  • Focus on real life connections: Always prioritize facial interactions. Face-to-face interactions cultivates deeper bonds than any virtual experience.
  • Avoid comparison: Always remember that social media only portrays the highlighted reels. It is most definitely not reality. The secret to overcome this is by  having a mindset of abundance
  • Respect privacy: There`s this saying "don`t go close to the fire or you`ll get burnt". Respect each other digital boundaries. Don`t go suspecting unnecessarily. All you need is trust.

Wrapping Up

Social media is neither inherently good nor bad, it’s how couples use it that matters. By setting boundaries, maintaining trust, and focusing on real-life connections, you can leverage the benefits of social media while minimizing its downsides.

"In the digital age, the key to strong relationships lies in balancing virtual interactions with real-world intimacy."